<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?> <!DOCTYPE book PUBLIC "-//NLM//DTD BITS Book Interchange DTD v2.3 20210610//EN" "BITS-book2.3.dtd"> <book xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" xmlns:mml="http://www.w3.org/1998/Math/MathML" book-type="conference-proceedings" dtd-version="2.3" xml:lang="en"> <front> <book-meta>  <book-id book-id-type="isbn">978-5-908083-33-1</book-id>   <book-id pub-id-type="doi">10.31483/a-10806</book-id>   <title-group>  <book-title xml:lang="en">Современный образовательный процесс: актуальные вопросы, инновации, качество</book-title>   <trans-title-group xml:lang="ru"> <trans-title>Современный образовательный процесс: актуальные вопросы, инновации, качество</trans-title> </trans-title-group>  </title-group>   <contrib-group>  <contrib contrib-type="editor" id="editor1">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Гребенникова</surname> <given-names>Вероника Михайловна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" 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<contrib contrib-type="editor" id="editor4">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Белоцерковская</surname> <given-names>Снежанна Владимировна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Belotserkovskaia</surname> <given-names>Snezhanna Vladimirovna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>   <email xlink:type="simple">kubgu22@mail.ru</email> </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="editor" id="editor5">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Сафронова</surname> <given-names>Алла Дмитриевна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Safronova</surname> <given-names>Alla Dmitrievna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>  <contrib-id contrib-id-type="orcid">https://orcid.org/0009-0002-9613-6019</contrib-id> <email xlink:type="simple">89183353777@mail.ru</email> </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="editor" id="editor6">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Шер</surname> <given-names>Марина Леонидовна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Sher</surname> <given-names>Marina Leonidovna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>  <contrib-id contrib-id-type="orcid">https://orcid.org/0000-0001-5458-6615</contrib-id> <email xlink:type="simple">mlsher@yandex.ru</email> </contrib>  </contrib-group>   <contrib-group>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm1">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Гребенникова</surname> <given-names>Вероника Михайловна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Grebennikova</surname> <given-names>Veronika Mikhailovna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>  <contrib-id contrib-id-type="orcid">https://orcid.org/0000-0003-0705-7985</contrib-id> </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm2">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Сажина</surname> <given-names>Наталья Михайловна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Sazhina</surname> <given-names>Natalia Mikhailovna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>  <contrib-id contrib-id-type="orcid">https://orcid.org/0000-0002-3000-4462</contrib-id> </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm3">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Шер</surname> <given-names>Марина Леонидовна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Sher</surname> <given-names>Marina Leonidovna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>  <contrib-id contrib-id-type="orcid">https://orcid.org/0000-0001-5458-6615</contrib-id> </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm4">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Палиева</surname> <given-names>Татьяна Владиславовна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Palieva</surname> <given-names>Tat&#039;iana Vladislavovna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>  <contrib-id contrib-id-type="orcid">https://orcid.org/0000-0003-3903-1026</contrib-id> </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm5">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Сиренко</surname> <given-names>Светлана Николаевна</given-names> </name>   </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm6">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Цукурова</surname> <given-names>Лариса Александровна</given-names> </name>   </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm7">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Шпаков</surname> <given-names>Александр Эдуардович</given-names> </name>   </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm8">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Азлецкая</surname> <given-names>Елена Николаевна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Azletskaia</surname> <given-names>Elena Nikolaevna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>  <contrib-id contrib-id-type="orcid">https://orcid.org/0000-0002-7293-3948</contrib-id> </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm9">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Лазаренко</surname> <given-names>Лариса Анатольевна</given-names> </name>   </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm10">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Куренная</surname> <given-names>Елена Викторовна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Kurennaia</surname> <given-names>Elena Viktorovna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm11">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Оганесова</surname> <given-names>Нелли Львовна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Oganesova</surname> <given-names>Nelli L&#039;vovna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm12">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Попова</surname> <given-names>Юлия Ивановна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Popova</surname> <given-names>Iuliia Ivanovna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib 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<surname>Игнатович</surname> <given-names>Владлен Константинович</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Ignatovich</surname> <given-names>Vladlen Konstantinovich</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>  <contrib-id contrib-id-type="orcid">https://orcid.org/0000-0002-1625-772X</contrib-id> </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm16">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Игнатович</surname> <given-names>Светлана Сергеевна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Ignatovich</surname> <given-names>Svetlana Sergeevna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>  <contrib-id contrib-id-type="orcid">https://orcid.org/0000-0003-0479-6117</contrib-id> </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm17">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Ишкова</surname> <given-names>Екатерина 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</name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Golub</surname> <given-names>Marina Marina sergeevna golub</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm21">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Бойкова</surname> <given-names>Марина Борисовна</given-names> </name>   </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm22">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Жажева</surname> <given-names>Саида Аслановна</given-names> </name>   </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm23">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Ушаков</surname> <given-names>Алексей Антонидович</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Ushakov</surname> <given-names>Aleksei Antonidovich</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm24">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Гребенников</surname> <given-names>Олег Владимирович</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Grebennikov</surname> <given-names>Oleg Vladimirovich</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm25">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Гутник</surname> <given-names>Елизавета Павловна</given-names> </name>   </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm26">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Фоменко</surname> <given-names>Елена Николаевна</given-names> </name>   </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib 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name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Belotserkovskaia</surname> <given-names>Snezhanna Vladimirovna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm30">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Музыка</surname> <given-names>Тамара Владимировна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Muzyka</surname> <given-names>Tamara Vladimirovna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>  <contrib-id contrib-id-type="orcid">https://orcid.org/0000-0003-4095-4266</contrib-id> </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm31">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Руденко</surname> <given-names>Екатерина Юрьевна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Rudenko</surname> <given-names>Ekaterina Iurevna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm32">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Литвяхова</surname> <given-names>Евгения Андреевна</given-names> </name>   </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm33">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Токахо</surname> <given-names>Екатерина Гисовна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Tokakho</surname> <given-names>Ekaterina Gisovna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>  <contrib-id contrib-id-type="orcid">https://orcid.org/0009-0000-6171-7011</contrib-id> </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm34">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Юрченко</surname> <given-names>Татьяна Валентиновна</given-names> </name>   </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm35">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Никишенко</surname> <given-names>Оксана Сергеевна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Nikishenko</surname> <given-names>Oksana Sergeevna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm36">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Лопатюк</surname> <given-names>Евгения Андреевна</given-names> </name>   </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm37">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Ибрагимова</surname> <given-names>Эльмира Ризаевна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Ibragimova</surname> <given-names>Elmira Rizaevna</given-names> </name>  </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  <contrib contrib-type="member-of-organizing-committee" id="orgcomm38">    <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Чупразова</surname> <given-names>Александра Андреевна</given-names> </name>   </name-alternatives>   </contrib>  </contrib-group>   <event>  <event-desc xml:lang="ru">Современный образовательный процесс: актуальные вопросы, инновации, качество</event-desc>   <event-desc xml:lang="en">Modern educational process: psychological and pedagogical support, educational strategies</event-desc>   <conf-date> <day>27</day> <month>11</month> <year>2025</year> </conf-date>    <conf-loc xml:lang="en">Краснодар</conf-loc>  </event>   <publisher> <publisher-name>ИД «Среда»</publisher-name> </publisher>    <pub-date pub-type="collection"> <year>1900</year> </pub-date>    <permissions> <copyright-statement>Copyright &#x00A9; Anna I. Ritter, 2025</copyright-statement> <copyright-year>2025</copyright-year> <license license-type="open-access" xlink:href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/" xlink:type="simple"> <license-p>This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 License.</license-p> </license> </permissions>  </book-meta> <book-part book-part-type="conference-paper"> <book-part-meta>  <book-id pub-id-type="doi">10.31483/r-152150</book-id>   <book-id custom-type="publisher-id" pub-id-type="custom">152150</book-id> <title-group>  <chapter-title xml:lang="en">Nurturing without Punishment: Productive Approaches to Communicating with Children</chapter-title>   <trans-title-group xml:lang="ru"> <trans-title>Воспитание без наказания: продуктивные приемы общения с ребенком</trans-title> </trans-title-group>  </title-group>  <contrib-group>   <contrib contrib-type="author" id="author1">   <name-alternatives>  <name name-style="eastern" xml:lang="ru"> <surname>Риттер</surname> <given-names>Анна Игоревна</given-names> </name>   <name name-style="western" xml:lang="en"> <surname>Ritter</surname> <given-names>Anna Igorevna</given-names> </name>   </name-alternatives>  <email xlink:type="simple">Ange1anna@yandex.ru</email> <xref ref-type="aff" rid="aff1"/> </contrib>   <aff-alternatives id="aff1">   <aff xml:lang="ru">  <institution>МКУ РЦ «Детство»</institution>   <country>Россия</country> </aff>    <aff xml:lang="en">  <institution>Detstvo Resource Center in Krasnodar</institution>   <country>Russia</country> </aff>   </aff-alternatives>  </contrib-group>   <fpage>203</fpage> <lpage>205</lpage>   <abstract xml:lang="en"> <p>the subject of this article is the analysis of approaches to communication by parents with children in situations where there is a conflict of interests. The analysis examines in detail examples of undesirable behaviour by parents in order to exact obedience, the consequences of punishment and the reaction of children to the words and actions of parents. Concrete approaches for productive communication between parents and children to overcome problematic behaviour and facilitate adaptation to social norms and rules without using punishment are demonstrated in the article.</p> </abstract>    <trans-abstract xml:lang="ru"> <p>предметом статьи является анализ приемов общения родителей с детьми при конфликте интересов. Подробно рассмотрены ситуации нежелательного поведения родителей с целью достижения послушания, рассмотрены последствия наказаний, реакции детей на слова и действия родителей. В статье показаны конкретные приемы продуктивного общения родителей с детьми для преодоления проблемного поведения и адаптации к социальным нормам и правилам без наказания.</p> </trans-abstract>         <kwd-group xml:lang="ru">  <kwd>родители</kwd>  <kwd>дети</kwd>  <kwd>наказания</kwd>  <kwd>способы общения</kwd>  </kwd-group>    <kwd-group xml:lang="en">  <kwd>children</kwd>  <kwd>parents</kwd>  <kwd>punishment</kwd>  <kwd>methods of communication</kwd>  </kwd-group>      </book-part-meta> </book-part> </front>  <back> <ref-list> <title>References</title>  <ref id="ref1"> <label>1</label> <citation-alternatives>  <mixed-citation xml:lang="ru">Гиппенрейтер Ю.Б. Общаться с ребенком. Как? / Ю.Б. Гиппенрейтер. – М.: Аст, 2008.</mixed-citation>    </citation-alternatives> <element-citation publication-type="other">  <person-group person-group-type="author">  <name> <surname>Гиппенрейтер</surname> <given-names>Ю. 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